Hidup terus Berputar

Ketika Orang Yang Kita Sayang Lebih dulu meninggalkan kita, rasanya sangat menyakitkan dan menyedihkan, ditambah seseorang yang pergi itu adalah orang yang sempat berarti didalam hidup kita sampai kapanpun.
hari ini , jiwaku serasa sedih ketika menuliskan tulisan didinding web ini, aku kembali diingatkan oleh senyum dan canda tawa nya ketika dia masih hidup didunia, namun sekarang berbeda keadaannya, dia telah pergi untuk selama-lamanya, karena aku baru menyadari itu lah proses hidup.
Keponakan ku bernama Nadila Rizky Amalia (11 Th) yang gak aku sangka-sangka sampai sekarang telah lebih dulu dijemput oleh Yang Maha Kuasa, kita sebagai manusia hanya bisa berusaha ikhlas dan sabar terhadap cobaan itu, MAUT, JODOH, dan REZEKY itu semua sudah adalah garis tangan yang sudah menjadi rahasia Illahi..



kejadian ini menjadikan ku untuk lebih kuat menjadi seorang perempuan, karena kita tahu setiap ada kesulitan maka juga akan ada kemudahan dari Allah dalam menjalaninya.
Rupannya Allah lebih sayang pada dia ( Nadila Rizky Amalia ) sehingga Allah lebih dulu menjemputnya.
hal ini benar-benar sontak membuatku masih tidak percaya atas apa yang terjadi,,,
namun itulah yang sebenarnya, Allah Maha Segalanya.. apapun yang Dia Inginkan pasti smua nya bisa terjadi.
itulah Hidup , akan terus berputar, terkadang dibawah , terkadang berada diatas,,
smoga ini menjadi hal yang positif , masalah seperti apapun kita harus lalui dan serahkan semuanya pada Allah.
selalu tersenyum dan bersemangat dalam menjalani hidup, karena hidup cuman 1 kali, maka gunakan lah waktu itu dengan baik.

Kesempatan itu masih ada

pengalaman membawa kami menemukan banyak teman .........

ini salah satu dokumentasi foto yang diambil ketika bersama teman-teman mootcourt (peradilan semu)dari UMY (Universitas Muhammadiyah Yogya) pada waktu itu peran ku sebagai Penasehat Hukum.
memang menyenangkan kalo udah kumpul bersama dan saling berbagi antara teman yang satu dengan teman yang lainnya, bisa sharing dan berbagi banyak pengalaman yang mungkin belum pernah aku dapatkan sebelumnya.

Terimakasih Yaa Allah ,, Engkau telah memberiku kesempatan untuk menemukan banyak teman.
yaaaa,, mungkin itu sebagian dari ungkapan rasa syukur ku kepada ALLah, karena sampai sekarang aku dapat belajar dan terus belajar untuk menemukan hal2 positif lainnya.
kenangan lainnya yang gak bisa dilupain adalah pada saat penggarapan berkas.
canda tawa dan suka duka lainnya juga banyak kutemukan bersama mereka.
itulah arti dari sebuah pertemanan, aku berharap smoga kebersamaan kami tidak putus sampai disini, kami akan terus berusaha untuk menjadi yang terbaik dan memberikan yang terbaik kepada orang lain dan kami akan terus semangat untuk memiliki cita-cita yang tinggi.
Dan selain itu banyak hal-hal menarik lainnya yang didapat dari indahnya sebuah kebersamaan...

itulah hidup

Ketika pagi datang , aku menyapa matahari
Ketika malam datang , aku menyapa Bulan ...

kentut bisa nyalain lilin lhoo...

Tanda-tanda Ajal

Tanda-tanda Ajal Sharing sesama manusia, untuk diketahui ya....
Karena kita sama semua ; mahluk ciptaan Yang Maha Kuasa.....

"Tanda 100 hari menjelang meninggal"
Ini adalah tanda pertama dari Tuhan kepada hamba-Nya dan hanya akan disadari oleh mereka yang dikehendaki-Nya......
Walau bagaimanapun semua orang akan mendapat tanda ini, hanya saja ada yang menyadari ada pula yang tidak.....
Tanda ini akan terjadi lazimnya selepas waktu Ashar, dimana seluruh tubuh yaitu dari ujung rambut hingga ke ujung kaki akan mengalami getaran atau seakan-akan menggigil, contohnya seperti daging sapi yang baru saja disembelih dimana jika diperhatikan dengan teliti, kita akan mendapati daging tersebut seakan-akan bergetar......
Tanda ini memberi rasa nikmat dan bagi mereka yang sadar dan jika hati kita tergelitik bahwa mungkin ini adalah tanda ajal menjelang, maka getaran ini akan berhenti dan hilang setelah kita sadar akan kehadiran tanda ini. Bagi mereka yang tidak diberi kesadaran atau mereka yang hanyut dengan kenikmatan tanpa memikirkan soal kematian, tanda ini akan lenyap begitu saja tanpa ada manfaatnya ...
Bagi yang sadar dengan kehadiran tanda ini, maka ini adalah peluang terbaik untuk memanfaatkan waktu yang tersisa untuk mempersiapkan diri dengan amal ibadah dan urusan yang akan dibawa atau ditinggalkan sesudah mati.

"Tanda 40 hari"
Tanda ini juga akan terjadi sesudah waktu Ashar, dimana bahagian pusar kita akan berdenyut-denyut.
Pada saat itu daun yang bertuliskan nama kita akan gugur dari pohon yang letaknya di atas Singgasana Tuhan. Maka Malaikat Maut akan mengambil daun tersebut dan mulai melakukan persiapan atas diri kita, diantaranya adalah mengikuti kita sepanjang waktu ...
Dapat saja terjadi Malaikat Maut ini memperlihatkan wujudnya yang asli secara sekilas. Jika hal ini terjadi, mereka yang terpilih ini akan merasakan seakan-akan bingung seketika... Malaikat maut ini hanya 1, tetapi kewenangan untuk mencabut nyawa adalah sama dengan jumlah nyawa yang akan dicabutnya.........

"Tanda 7 hari"
Adapun tanda ini akan diberikan hanya kepada mereka yang diuji dengan musibah sakit, dimana orang sakit yang tidak nafsu makan, secara tiba- tiba berselera untuk makan...

"Tanda 3 hari"
Pada saat ini akan terasa denyutan di bahagian tengah dahi kita yaitu diantara dahi kanan dan kiri. Jika tanda ini dapat dirasakan maka berpuasalah kita selepas terjadinya hal itu supaya perut kita tidak mengandung banyak najis dan ini akan memudahkan urusan orang yang akan memandikan jenazah kita nanti....
Saat itu juga bagian hitam mata kita tidak akan bersinar lagi, dan bagi orang yang sakit, hidungnya akan perlahan-lahan jatuh dan ini dapat diperiksa jika kita melihatnya dari bahagian sisi...
Telinganya akan layu dimana bagian ujungnya akan beransur-ansur masuk ke dalam... Telapak kakinya yang terlunjur akan perlahan- lahan jatuh ke depan dan sukar ditegakan...

"Tanda 1 hari"
Akan terjadi sesudah Ashar dimana kita akan merasakan satu denyutan di bagian belakang kepala, yaitu di sekitar ubun-ubun dimana hal ini menandakan kita tidak akan sempat untuk menemui waktu Ashar keesokan harinya....

"Tanda akhir"
Akan terjadi keadaan dimana kita akan merasakan sejuk di bahagian pusar dan rasa itu akan turun kepinggang dan seterusnya akan naik ke bahagian tenggorokan...
Pada saat ini hendaklah kita terus berdo¢a dan berdiam diri dan menantikan kedatangan Malaikat Maut untuk menjemput kita kembali kepada Tuhan yang telah menghidupkan kita dan sekarang akan mematikan kita pula... Wallahu a'lam bisshawab


SESUNGGUHNYA MENGINGAT MATI ITU ADALAH BIJAK

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yeeeaaaaaaaahhhhh,,,,,,
THE OPPORTUNITY FOR US,ALSO BE EXPERIENCE FOR US.

7 days to becoming a better person.

Each day you do something selfless, that will not even take more than a few moments of your time, and experience first hand what it feels like to transform into a genuinely great person. Here’s the challenge:

Day 1 – Tell someone you love them
So many people out there never take the precious time to express how they feel to the ones that are truly important in their life. Expressing your love shouldn’t be seen as taboo or a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of confidence, and an expression of what you really feel. There is nothing more amazing than to know that someone loves you. On this first day of the challenge, choose someone in your life to make them feel that special feeling. It’s very simple, just sit them down and say something along those lines: “You know I don’t say this often enough but I do appreciate our bond and everything that you do for me. So I just wanted to tell you that I love you…I wanted you to know that.” In two minutes, you have made someone’s day….forget day, you’ve made their month! So pick a spouse, a parent, a sibling, a friend….anyone that you truly care about and say the magic word. You may get a little nervous just before, but once you say it, I guarantee you that you will feel amazing. Yes, becoming a better person is not a chore….it actually feels great!

Day 2 – Open your ears and listen
Everyone has their share of issues that they deal with on a daily basis. We all at some point need to be heard. We need to get things out and just blow some steam. Unfortunately, the art of listening is fading away. It’s becoming more and more of a struggle for people to find a good pair of ears to vent off to. So on day 2 of your quest to becoming a better person, you simply have to be there for someone close to you. That’s all you have to do. Listen to them. Let me tell you, I do this all the time with my friends. I make myself available for them and I just listen. You wouldn’t believe how it makes them happy to have someone listen to them. No opinions, no judgment. Listen unconditionally. You may not have realized the power of listening yet, but this exercise will prove it to you. It can make a tremendous difference in someone’s life, and it’s one of the best gifts you can give anyone.

Day 3 – Apologize
We all have made certain mistakes. We’ve all done things we regret. Unfortunately, the majority of the time, we never take the opportunity to make things better, perhaps out of pride or ego. So we carry this along with us. Sure, with time, its impact may fade a little, but there is a much more powerful method to deal with such situations. On day 3, it’s time for you to swallow your pride and apologize. Look into your past. Is there a particular person that you have lost touch with or haven’t spoken to in a while? Regardless of what happened, this is not the time to decide who was right and who was wrong. This is about healing a wound. Apologizing is not an admission that you were wrong. On the other hand, it is proof that you are confident enough to say it. This act will not only make the other party feel much better, it will inspire them. So by being the “bigger person” and apologizing, you create nothing but positive energy all around. This is as rewarding for you as it is for that other person.

Day 4 – Give away a valuable
Nowadays, the only time people give each other anything somewhat meaningful is on birthdays and holidays. What about the other 360-something days of the year? Simply giving contains so much power in and of itself. This is why on day 3, you will choose something meaningful that you will give to someone that you know will like it and/or benefit from it. It must be something in your home, that you already own. Perhaps a painting, or a book. Something that you hold dear and that will bring happiness and value to the person you choose to give it to. You see, sharing your wealth is one of the best ways to prove how much you care and necessary to becoming a good person. These types of gifts are so much more powerful than anything given on birthdays or holidays, because it shows that you gave it because you wanted to, not because you had it. This brings a whole new meaning to that gift and will make the person appreciate it even more!

Day 5 – Volunteer your time
The first few days, you have given back to the people close to you, but now, it is time to take this further than the comfort of your own surroundings! Giving back to your community and your society is just as important, and an integral part of making everything as a whole, a much better existence for all involved. On day 5, it is time for you to give some of your time away. It doesn’t have to be complicated. You can volunteer your time helping out at your children’s school, or at a local community center for example. It doesn’t have to be a full day or many hours. Volunteer the time that you can. What I mean is that instead of watching tv or surfing the web for example, take some of that time and do something that will help contribute to the development of your community. Ask around, could be something at work or related to a particular activity that you do. Nobody refuses a helping hand and everyone benefits out of it :)

Day 6 – Help out a stranger
So many people out there could use the help of some good people. After all, we are all humans and we should stick up for one another. I’ve always been amazed by stories of complete strangers risking their life to help a fellow human being. If we can just help anyone with a fraction of such a commitment, then we’ve all made a difference. On day 6, it’s time to do a kind gesture for a total stranger. Could be helping an elderly person with their bags, or helping a kid cross the street, there are so many tiny gestures that we can do in our daily life to help others it’s incredible. When you see a car break down on the side of the road, most people drive by, thinking that help is on the way or that someone else will stop. How about you become the person that stops? How about you become the person whose gesture makes a total stranger’s day? This is your opportunity to showcase how a good-hearted person reacts in such situations for the greater good of all involved.

Day 7 – Donate
The world is a big place, but in the end, we are a tiny community in the vastness of the Universe. All we have is each other. Although they may not live nearby, there are so many people around the world that need the assistance of good natured people. On this final day, it is time to take your good deeds global! There are tons of really good charities and organizations across the globe that make it their goal to help out those that are in need. Pick any organization about any particular cause that you may hold dear to your heart, and provide them with a donation. The internet makes it really easy now to find such organizations, so this final step is super simple and quick to complete. Donate whatever you can. The amount is not important. What is important is that even though your gesture was simple and quick, the difference it will make will resonate with far greater significance in the grand scheme of things.

So there you have it! 7 days and a better you comes out of it. As a matter of fact, if you have noticed, in becoming a better person, you have affected the lives of so many different people in such positive ways. With such small gestures each day, you have made a difference in your life as well as in other people’s, and that is what becoming a better person is all about. You may find that after these 7 days, you have now developed a habit and that you will continue each and every day to give back. If you have created a “momentum” of doing good deeds and that it will keep on going, then I have done my work. This can indeed become life changing! So you have the challenge and I would love to hear what you all have done and how it’s impacted your life and those around you ;)

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excited.. karena, foto ini diambil saat kita lagi briefing sebelum perform peradilan semu dimulai... yang paling kiri adalah dosen pembimbing kita yang paling bersahabat bgt sama mahasiswa,, so, klo kita sharing masalah kuliah sangat dibantu ama beliau.. Namanya Pak Trisno,, dulu dia pernah jadi lecturer gw waktu ngambil mata kuliah hukum Pidana...
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Do NOT Commit Suicide

Reasons Not to Kill Yourself or End Your Life

Dec 21, 2007 Brian Tubbs
There are hundreds of Internet searches each week on "How to Commit Suicide." Perhaps you are looking for ways to commit suicide. Please stop and read this article.

Hundreds of people each week search the Internet for information on "how to commit suicide" as well as "how to kill yourself." Search options run the gamut from "how to commit suicide with carbon monoxide" to "how to commit suicide painlessly" to "how to commit suicide and not screw up" to "101 ways to kill yourself."

If you are considering suicide, please take a few moments to breathe, read this article, sort through your situation prayerfully, and get help. If you know someone who may be at risk, perhaps this article will help you help them.

Here are some facts to help you say NO to suicide and YES to life.


1. There Is Substantial Evidence for the Existence of God

No games here. The bottom line is that the evidence for the existence of God far outweighs any evidence for atheism. If you doubt that statement, just use some common sense.

The universe began to exist. Whatever begins to exist must have a cause that brought it into existence. Moreover, the universe shows indications of fine-tuning and intricate design. That speaks to the strong likelihood of a Designer at work. And, finally, the presence of human aspiration, conscience, and spiritual awareness all point to something greater than what we simply see, touch, taste, hear, and smell.

These observations (and others) all mean that God (or at least a supernatural, cosmic intelligence of some kind) is real.

Not only that, but the overwhelming majority of people in the world accept the existence of God or a supernatural force of some kind. Those who reject the divine are in the distinct minority.
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You therefore owe it to yourself to do everything you can to communicate with God.

2. Your Value Comes from God

If God is real, then you are here because God created you or at least allowed you to come into existence. That fact determines your purpose for living as well as your worth as an individual.

The Founding Fathers of the United States of America made clear, in the opening paragaphs of the Declaration of Independence, that our "unalienable rights" (including our rights to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" - the very rights that define our value as human beings) come from the Creator.

That means your value is NOT associated with what other people think of you - even those who may be close to you. Nor does your value come from society. This, of course, doesn't mean that others won't try to diminish you or manipulate your feelings of self-worth. You can, however, rest confident in the "self-evident truth" (to steal a phrase from America's Founders) that your value comes from God. As such, your value is beyond human contestation.

3. There Is No "Restart" Button!

Once you take your life, there is no coming back. This is not like a computer you can reboot or a game that you can start over. You have only one life. End it - and you're done. Do not make that choice.

The truth is that your life will, like everyone else's, run its course in due time. No one lives forever, and death will come to you eventually. There's no need for you to rush it.

4. Don't Decide Based on Feelings

NEVER let your life be governed by (or ended by) feelings. In fact, you should NEVER make decisions solely based on feelings. Your feelings should follow your decisions - and NOT the other way around.

So, stop, take a breath, count to 1,000 if you have to, but get a firm grip on your feelings. Do that so that you can think clearly about your life and situation. If you are unable to get a handle on your feelings or to get on top of your emotions, then you may be suffering from depression. In that case, see a doctor right away. Get help. And that leads to the final step...

5. Seek Help...NOW

You need to get help...now. If you are considering something as drastic as ending your life, you need to talk to your family, a health professional, and a counselor. And you need to do these things right away. If you don't have health insurance or can't afford a counselor (and even if you can), consider contacting an area church. Obviously, if you are already in a church, get a hold of your pastor.

Read more at Suite101: Do NOT Commit Suicide: Reasons Not to Kill Yourself or End Your Life http://protestantism.suite101.com/article.cfm/do_not_commit_suicide#ixzz0s2aIRDsg